Simple Happy Love

When I listen to Young woman in my entourage going on and on about how much of a difficult time they are having in their love relationships,  It’s exhausting !   Right off the bat , I tell them :  Hey! Being in a relationship with your boyfriend has to be fairly easy going .  Of course there might be some challenges here and there, but for the most part, it has to flow, to come easy .  If it ain’t ?  Let it go and trust that you will find a better fit somewhere along the way .   I learned that lesson a long time ago but when I can, I really want to help Young woman early on to get the life they want and deserve.   My best friend and I always said to each other : Remember .. don’t settle , life is too short !  Find that person who gets You !  Don’t waste any time trying to change your partner in the process , that just DOES NOT WORK.  Why do complicated , when you can have simple.  If this resonates with you right now, I say : Run Darling Run ! ( Is that from a movie or something?)  .  It’s Ok to be alone for a while and chill .  One day you will find yourself in a relashionship and think:  I love how easy this feels !  That’s how it’s supposed to be.  If it’s a day to day struggle to figure out why things are so complicated? Walk away . Have faith in yourself . The right kind of Love will come your way.